Anyone who wants you to live in misery for their happiness should not be in your life to begin with.
If you’re a happy person who enjoys living life—NEWS FLASH—not everyone is like you. In fact, some people hate to be happy. Some people want to be miserable. They like the attention it gets them. They love it when people like you rush in to help or save them. It literally gives them an emotional high. They get a dopamine release from the attention you’re giving them. But what happens when that dopamine release wears off? They need another hit.