Life isn’t fair. We know this, but often have trouble accepting it. And, it’s easier than you think to fall into victim mentality. This mindset will take your unfair experience and make it bigger. It will expand to infect your life with overwhelming powerlessness. You will feel pathetic and attract pathetic people. And, you will never reach your goals. Leaders refuse to waste time seeking sympathy and attention. Instead, leaders realize that they have a choice in how they respond to events in their life. Leaders are too busy applying the lesson to solutions that will move them forward. Here are 3 reasons why leaders never play the victim and how you can take control of your life, by seeking growth and building resilience, to move forward to your goals.